The unberable lighness of being
December 1st 2007 06:38
Hey all,
a post about the application of the ethics i defend to our so problematic relations between men and women.
Since i'm a man, and i don't have any sisters of my age, i've can't get into womens heads. But that's not a real problem for this post, since i'll talk more about our side. Nowadays, it's quite fashion to talk about women's points in relations, i'm taking the other way round, now that we're not supposed to pay the bills all alone anymore...
I've already explained why i think the moral developped by humanists is anything but "human". They've completely forgot that we are still (somehow) animals, with instincts to follow (or fight against..). I'm not saying we should live like animals, but we cannot deny that we have instincts. We should learn to live with them, not to be it's slave's, but to feed them in a way that this allows us to develop ourselves completely.
This problem can be applied to monogamy. I don't understand women's heads so i'm not taking any conclusions about them, but i have plenty of friends and myself to speak for our side. Mate, show me a wonderfull maried women, and i'll show you a man that desires to sheat on her.
Men have defined a system that creates maybe the worst "reactive force" that blocks his tp achieve "grand style": to be able to resist other women, men loose their time resisting, forcing themselves, blocking, becoming lower and worse then they could if they were free. This because monogamy is an imperatif to women.
Ok, you can find someone to whom monogamy is desired, but plenty of times you'll be listening to the powerfull voice of hipocrisy, with which people avoid problems. but these lies block men, and thus are really 'unhelpful" to them.
I don't agree either that men cheat on her wifes and girls. The thing is that they shouldn't allow this situation to come in the first place. Even though you love the gril when you meet her, by in 5 year of mariage you'll be dying to find someone to chage a little bit your things.
We don't have the guts to tell this most of the times, and so we have other problems in 6 months, 1 year, maybe more. The more the time passes, the more the guy will feel atracted to other women, the more his actual giral will look uninteresting.
a post about the application of the ethics i defend to our so problematic relations between men and women.
Since i'm a man, and i don't have any sisters of my age, i've can't get into womens heads. But that's not a real problem for this post, since i'll talk more about our side. Nowadays, it's quite fashion to talk about women's points in relations, i'm taking the other way round, now that we're not supposed to pay the bills all alone anymore...
I've already explained why i think the moral developped by humanists is anything but "human". They've completely forgot that we are still (somehow) animals, with instincts to follow (or fight against..). I'm not saying we should live like animals, but we cannot deny that we have instincts. We should learn to live with them, not to be it's slave's, but to feed them in a way that this allows us to develop ourselves completely.
This problem can be applied to monogamy. I don't understand women's heads so i'm not taking any conclusions about them, but i have plenty of friends and myself to speak for our side. Mate, show me a wonderfull maried women, and i'll show you a man that desires to sheat on her.
Men have defined a system that creates maybe the worst "reactive force" that blocks his tp achieve "grand style": to be able to resist other women, men loose their time resisting, forcing themselves, blocking, becoming lower and worse then they could if they were free. This because monogamy is an imperatif to women.
Ok, you can find someone to whom monogamy is desired, but plenty of times you'll be listening to the powerfull voice of hipocrisy, with which people avoid problems. but these lies block men, and thus are really 'unhelpful" to them.
We don't have the guts to tell this most of the times, and so we have other problems in 6 months, 1 year, maybe more. The more the time passes, the more the guy will feel atracted to other women, the more his actual giral will look uninteresting.
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